Both help you get more users, but they solve completely different problems. Here's what beginners often miss:
| Feature | Postbacks Addon | Referral System |
|---|---|---|
| What it does | Connects you to external CPA networks with 1,000-50,000 affiliates | Lets your existing members invite friends for commission |
| Traffic source | External (affiliates already have dating traffic) | Internal (your current users must recruit) |
| Works when you have | 0 users (networks bring traffic from outside) | 500+ users (otherwise nobody to invite friends) |
| Time to first results | 48-72 hours after network approval | 3-6 months (users need habit formation) |
| Who manages partners | CPA network handles fraud detection, payments, support | You manually approve referrals, pay commissions, handle disputes |
| Cost per new user | $5-15 (mainstream) or $1-8 (adult) guaranteed | $0... if your users actually invite (95% don't) |
| Requires campaign budget | Yes ($500-2,000 for testing) | No (just one-time $220 addon cost) |
Postbacks is not a traffic source—it's the technical bridge to traffic sources.
Think of it this way:
Without Postbacks, CPA networks can't track your conversions = they won't approve you. Without Referral System, you can't incentivize your existing members to recruit—but if you have 0-50 members, there's nobody to incentivize anyway.
Buy: Postbacks Addon ($320)
Buy: Referral System ($220)
Hybrid strategy (recommended):
Think of postbacks as automatic notifications from your platform to affiliate networks. Every time something important happens on your site—someone registers, verifies email, buys a membership—this addon instantly tells the network "user from affiliate X just completed action Y."
Without postbacks, affiliate networks have no way to track if their traffic converts. They can't pay affiliates accurately, and they can't identify which partners bring quality users vs. junk traffic. No postbacks = no approval from serious networks.
Every conversion event (registration, email verification, payment, recurring subscription) triggers an instant notification to the network. They see exactly which affiliate drove that action, when it happened, and how much revenue it generated.
You only pay affiliates for conversions that matter. Networks automatically block partners who send low-quality traffic. You can scale winners and pause losers based on real conversion data, not guesses.
| Event | What triggers the postback | Why networks care |
|---|---|---|
| Registration | User completes signup form on your platform | Proves traffic source drives real signups (CPA payment trigger) |
| Email verification | User clicks confirmation link in email | Filters fake/bot registrations (quality indicator) |
| First payment | User completes membership purchase via payment processor | The money moment—affiliate gets commission based on this |
| Recurring subscription | User's monthly/yearly subscription renews automatically | Lifetime value tracking—some networks pay on recurring revenue |
The standard addon covers the four events above. If you need custom tracking (gift purchases, premium feature upgrades, video call minutes, etc.), contact us for custom development. Most CPA networks only require the standard four events.
This addon works with any affiliate program or network that supports server-to-server (S2S) postback tracking. Confirmed compatibility with:
Step 1: Install addon → Your platform generates unique postback URLs for each conversion event
Step 2: Add to network → You paste these URLs into your CPA network dashboard (takes 5 minutes)
Step 3: Test mode → Generate a test conversion to verify postbacks fire correctly
Step 4: Go live → Every real conversion automatically notifies the network with affiliate ID, event type, and revenue amount
| Requirement | Status | Details |
|---|---|---|
| Dating Pro platform | Required | Any plan (Start, Plus, Premium, Ultimate) |
| Payment processor | Required | Must be connected to track payment conversions (Stripe, PayPal, CCBill, etc.) |
| Custom domain | Required | CPA networks won't accept subdomain.datingpro.com URLs |
| Technical knowledge | Not required | Copy-paste postback URLs into network dashboard (we provide guide) |
| Setup time | — | 30 minutes: addon installation + adding URLs to network |
This addon does NOT automatically bring you traffic or affiliates. It's the technical foundation that allows you to work with CPA networks. Think of it like installing a payment processor—it doesn't generate sales by itself, but you can't accept payments without it.
You still need to:
| Feature | Postbacks Addon ($320) | CPA Integration Service (from $345) |
|---|---|---|
| Postback URL generation | Included | Included |
| Test mode verification | Included | Included |
| Network selection consultation | Not included | 30-min call |
| Network application support | DIY | We help prepare materials |
| Campaign setup recommendations | Not included | CPA rates, geo targeting, budgets |
| Launch week monitoring | Not included | We verify conversions track correctly |
| Best for | You know which network to use | You're new to CPA networks |
If you already know which CPA network you want (JuicyAds, Traforama, etc.) and just need the technical setup, this addon is all you need. If you want help choosing the right network and launching your first campaign, consider the CPA Integration Service.
Server-to-server (S2S) HTTP/HTTPS GET or POST requests. Supports dynamic parameter replacement (affiliate_id, transaction_id, amount, currency, etc.)
Optional token-based authentication to prevent fake postback requests. IP whitelisting for approved networks. SSL/TLS encryption for all postback URLs.
Cookie-based affiliate attribution with 30-day default window (configurable). Handles multiple devices (user registers on mobile, pays on desktop = correct attribution).
Postbacks fire asynchronously (don't slow down user experience). Failed postbacks retry up to 3 times with exponential backoff. Logs available for debugging.
While the addon comes with setup documentation, some clients prefer hands-on assistance. Dating Pro Professional Services can help:
Hourly rate: $69-140/hour depending on complexity. Learn more
Access to 50,000 affiliates in CPA networks who already drive dating traffic. They promote you, you pay per conversion ($5-15), Postbacks tracks everything automatically.
Result: Traffic in 48-72 hours
A dashboard for your current members to invite friends and earn commissions. Great for organic growth—but requires existing engaged community to work.
Reality: 95% of members never invite anyone
Scenario: You have 20 users, buy Referral System ($220)
With Postbacks + CPA: $10/user, 100 users in month 1
If you don't want to work with external CPA networks and prefer slow, organic member-to-member referrals, consider Dating Pro Referral System ($220). It's perfect when you have 500+ active users who might invite friends. But if you're starting with 0-100 users, you need external traffic first—that's where Postbacks + CPA networks come in.
Most successful dating platforms follow this pattern:
Add this addon to your Dating Pro platform and start working with affiliate programs that require conversion tracking.
One-time payment. No recurring fees. Works with any Dating Pro plan.