Anti-Ghosting System: build trust, boost retention, and protect your brand
Anti-Ghosting System
Turn silent chats into active conversations. Boost retention by up to 35% with intelligent conversation tracking.
You're probably here because:
Your chat analytics show a pattern you can't ignore: conversations start strong, users exchange a few messages, then one side stops responding. No explanation. No closure. Just silence.
This isn't just about hurt feelings. It's about your bottom line. When users get ghosted repeatedly, they disengage from your platform. Your retention metrics drop. Your LTV suffers. Premium subscription conversions stall because users don't see the point in paying for conversations that lead nowhere.
40-60%
of dating conversations end without closure
23%
lower retention when users experience repeated ghosting
$47
average lost LTV per ghosted user (industry average)
What this gives you:
The Anti-Ghosting System doesn't punish users. Instead, it creates gentle accountability through visibility and nudges. Users see when they're at risk of becoming "that person who ghosts," and they get easy tools to either re-engage or exit respectfully.
Higher retention rates
Users who feel respected stay longer. Our clients report 25-35% improvement in 30-day retention after implementing this system.
More messages per user
Active conversations mean more engagement. Expect 40-50% increase in average messages per active user within 60 days.
Better platform reputation
When users trust that conversations won't just disappear, they recommend your platform. Net Promoter Score typically improves by 15-20 points.
Increased conversion to premium
Users subscribe when they see value. Active conversations drive 18-22% higher conversion rates to paid memberships.
The outcome:
A predictable, stable ecosystem where conversations don't just start—they develop. Your analytics become more reliable. Your revenue forecasts more accurate. Your users feel the difference between your platform and competitors where ghosting runs unchecked.
How it works:
Three-tier visibility system with smart nudges and respectful exit options.
1
Active Status
"Your Turn" badge appears when it's your time to respond. Conversations with activity within 24 hours remain in active status. Clean, simple, no pressure.
2
24h Warning
After 24-48 hours of inactivity, a yellow "24h Warning" badge appears. This is a gentle nudge—no shame, just visibility. The other person can see you might have lost track of the conversation.
3
Ghost Risk Alert
Beyond 48 hours: red "Ghost Risk" badge. At this point, users receive a notification: "Keep your conversation alive or use 'Unmatch' to end respectfully." Clear options, no judgment.
4
Respectful Exit Tool
Every conversation has an "Unmatch" button. Using it removes guilt and provides clean closure. No ghosting badge appears if you use this tool.
Important: The system tracks patterns, not individual failures to respond. Life happens. One missed message doesn't trigger warnings. This is about consistent patterns that harm the ecosystem.
What's included:
- Automated conversation status tracking with three-tier warning system
- Customizable time thresholds (adjust the 24h/48h windows to match your platform's pace)
- Smart notification engine that reminds without annoying
- Conversation starter suggestions when chats go quiet
- Emoji reaction prompts to make re-engagement effortless
- "Unmatch" button integration with clean UI/UX
- Admin dashboard with ghosting metrics and trends
- A/B testing framework to optimize your specific thresholds
Technical specifications:
■ Platform compatibility
Works across web, iOS, Android, and Telegram bot versions of your dating platform. Single implementation, consistent experience.
■ Performance impact
Minimal server load. The system uses efficient batch processing every 4 hours to update statuses. No real-time overhead.
■ Data privacy
No conversation content is analyzed. The system only tracks timestamps and response patterns. Fully GDPR and CCPA compliant.
■ Customization level
Adjust every threshold, notification text, and badge appearance through the admin panel. No coding required for basic customization.
Why platform owners choose this:
"We saw ghosting as a user experience problem. Then we ran the numbers. Every user who got ghosted 3+ times had a 67% higher churn rate. This system didn't just improve feelings—it improved our revenue by 18% quarter-over-quarter."
— Dating Pro client running a niche platform with 45,000+ active users
Real impact: After implementing Anti-Ghosting, platforms typically see results within 30-45 days. The system needs time to establish behavioral patterns, but once users adapt to the new norms, the improvements compound.
Ready to turn silent chats into active revenue?
The Anti-Ghosting System integrates seamlessly with your Dating Pro platform. Our team handles setup and optimization based on your specific user behavior patterns.
Our Sales team will set it up on your platform; purchase after the trial if satisfied